9) “Does the idea that you might get caught having sex turn you on?”
8) “Do you like cuddles?”
You don’t always need to be directly sexual when you ask her questions online in order to get her excited. Sometimes, you can turn her on in other ways without even alluding to sex. In your first online message avoid anything too sexual.
One of the first times I really got chatting to a woman online, she asked me if I liked cuddling. I’d never been asked that before.
Women love to cuddle. It’s one of their favorite things ever. While dirty talk gets them excited, so does the equally sensual cuddle talk. It lets her know that you’re keen on her and that you want to get intimate and look after her. You want to be there for her and protect her, and this is a massive turn-on for women.
She’ll start picturing all kinds of things, like the two of you cuddling in front of the fire. You two cuddling in bed all day. Cuddling after a particularly hard day of work.
It’s a great question that lets her know your intent, initiates role-play, and makes her feel good. Plus, it’s very rare for a guy to take the initiative where cuddling is concerned, especially online. This will set you apart as someone mature enough to not just be all about sex.
This type of question is yet another naughty and sexy way to open things up with a woman. It adds a little taboo to the discussion, which can throw gasoline on an already smoldering fire. Getting caught having sex with someone? It’s risky, it’s daring, it’s hot.
If she hasn’t nearly been caught having sex before? Let her know how exciting it is to come close to being caught (except by your grandma, of course!). Let her know that you don’t mind a bit of risk, a bit of dare or a bit of exhibitionism. It’s all part of the fun.
This sort of goes along the lines of the hottest place she’s ever had sex. Not all women are turned on by the idea of getting caught. If she’s more into hooking up in private settings, that doesn’t mean she won’t be fun in bed. In fact, a lot of people show their wildest sides behind closed doors.
Both men and women watch pornography that doesn’t necessarily align with their real-life sexual desires. So, while the idea of getting caught might turn a woman on, she might not want to live that scenario. Either way, it can be fun to talk about!
10) “What spots on your body always get you hot and bothered?”
Lastly, find out which part of her body always gets her in the mood when a guy gives her attention. She’ll be excited thinking that soon YOU’LL be nibbling her ear, stroking the back of her neck or slapping her butt.
Make sure she knows this, of course. When she tells you which part of her body gets her in the mood? Tell her exactly what you’ll be doing to it.
Use These Questions To Ask Women While Online Dating To Get Her Going
As your conversation heats up, you should have a pretty good indication as to whether she’s into it or not. If she’s going along with your spicy questions and asking you some in return, that’s a positive sign. As always, if a woman gives you her phone number, it usually means she wants to continue interacting with you. And maybe take things a step further.
In some cases, you might have to message back and forth for a while before a woman agrees to meet. Especially if the goal is focused on casual sex. Meeting IRL is always a risk, and many women play it safe.